你成功隐瞒家人的最大的秘密是什么？

你成功隐瞒家人的最大的秘密是什么？
What is the biggest secret you have successfully kept from your family?

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http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1huxiq/what_is_the_biggest_secret_you_have_successfully/
原创翻译：龙腾网

My brother told me he was going to commit suicide before he did it. I didn't believe him and just thought he was kidding so I didn't tell anyone.
Edit: Thanks everyone, it's been 5 years and I'm just starting to deal with it. All you replies were thoughtful and won't go unnoticed. You are all great people.
我哥哥在自杀前曾经和我说过，我没有相信他，只是觉得他和我开玩笑呢就没告诉别人
注：感谢大家，已经五年了我才开始接受这个现实，你们的回复都很体贴，不会被我忽视的，你们都是好人

Purple_ death
I broke the lamp with a bouncey ball with my grandpa. We blamed the cat.
我和祖父用弹力球打碎了灯，我们责怪了猫
S U P E R
I have 5 brothers and sisters. we were all raised by the same father. I ve learned I m his only biological child due to adultery. my mom doesn t know I know. my siblings have no idea.
我有5个兄弟姐妹，我们都是同一个父亲抚养长大的，我知道因为通奸关系自己是唯一生理上的孩子，我母亲不知道我知道这个，我的兄弟姐妹也不知道
Chai Tea A Z
My family knows my fiancé is younger than me, but they don't know he is 20 years younger than me.
我家人知道未婚夫比我年轻，但他们不知道他比我年轻20岁

Garlic_ Ice_ Cream
The scars on my stomach are not from jiu-jitsu. They are from my ex's fingernails. They don't know about the ex either.
我胃部的疤痕不是来自于柔道，是我前女友留下的，他们也不知道我有前女友
Chezy Spam
Had sex with one of my mom's friends for a little while. That was nifty. It's been years, Mom doesn't know and I doubt she would care at this point.
有一段时间和我母亲的朋友发生性关系，那很棒，很多年了，母亲不知道，我也不知道她是否在意
Kno name no face
My family does not know that my older brother molested and raped me for six years. It started when I was seven and ended just after my thirteenth birthday. He regularly threatened to kill me and beat me up -- but he was 'smart' enough to never leave noticeable marks. I never told anyone out of fear and because I didn't think anything would be done about it. He's only three years older than me but the fucker knew better. I am 22 now and while I consider myself a strong young woman, he still gets under my skin. I try to never be alone with him but when there is a chance, he takes it.
我家人不知道我的哥哥骚扰和强奸我六年的时间，在始于我六岁时，止于我13岁生日时。他经常威胁说要杀我和打我—但他很聪明，从来不留下线索。我处于恐惧和知道无能为力而没有告诉任何人。他只比我大三岁。我现在22岁了，以为自己可以成为一个坚强的女人了，但是他还是可以钻到我的裙底下去，我努力不和他独处但只要有机会，他就会把握住。
Spell man_ sister
I lost my virginity in a rape when I was 15. Became suicidal and tried to kill myself, later developing bulimia. Five years later I still struggle with it every damn day.
我15岁遭到强奸失去了贞洁，想过自杀，然后换上了暴食症，5年过去了我还是每天在为此挣扎。
Mother psy cho
That I'm bisexual. My mother has told us all that if we ever came out, she'd still love us but we were to never talk about it or introduce her to our partner.. I love women, I've had sex with more women than men.. I envy my cousin who came out and was so accepted by her mom.
我是双性恋。我的母亲告诉我们说如果我们出柜了，她还是会爱我们的，但是我们从来没有讨论过这个或者把我的同伴介绍给她…我爱女人，我与女人发生的性关系比与男人还多，我羡慕我的表妹出柜了，还被她母亲接受了

Uni sex Bath tub
That I haven't gone to school since I was 15. I'm 22 now and they think I've just graduated college.
我15岁开始就没有去过学校，我现在22岁，他们认为我刚从大学毕业
Plasmid D N A
how were you able to pull this off?
你怎么隐瞒过去的？
Uni sex Bath tub
I'm one of 4 boys and the youngest. My parents worked out of state most of the time and left us to take care of ourselves. When I stopped going my brother pretended to be my dad on the phone and eventually they stopped trying to contact us.
我是四个男孩中的一个，是最年轻的。我父母大多数时间在外国工作，让我们自己照顾自己。当我辍学之后我哥哥在电话里假装是我爸爸，最终他们就不和我联系了。
A r a t
That I frequently want my existence to cease.
最终我想结束自己的存在
Jenny bella l
Sex before marriage.
婚前性行为
Slimy Yet Satisfying
...that you thought you successfully kept from your family
你原以为你成功地瞒过了自己的家人
Trippy mc gee
I had an abortion when I was 16.
我16岁的时候堕了胎
A jk lsdd
That I'm in a relationship with someone who they absolutely hate. They can't stand him. It's been over two years and we still have to fucking sneak around like we're sixteen.
我与一个他们痛恨的人发生了关系。他们不能忍受他，已经两年了我们还得遮遮掩掩，像是我们只有16岁一样
Ass hole Reporting Sir
Probably buried at this point...
My mom tried to abort me but the State wouldn't let her have another abortion in that year and It was too close to her last abortion.
She doesn't know I know...
说来话长了
我母亲想把我堕胎了，但是州法律不许她在那一年第二次堕胎，这距离她上次堕胎时间太短了
她不知道我知道的
Nozz A L a
I masturbated a lot as a teen.
Just kidding. They knew.
作为年轻人我经常手淫
只是开玩笑，他们知道的
Wacko Slacko
I know that I'm adopted...
I'm the big "family secret"...
我知道我是领养的……
我是家庭的大秘密
Diou so what
I've tried to kill myself... Twice...
Edit: Thanks to everyone that gave me positive feedback. Feels Good Man
我想杀了自己……两次了
注：感谢大家给了积极的反馈，现在感觉很好

Q U A C K E R
My family thinks I have a lot of friends. I really don't...
我家人觉得自己有很多朋友，其实我没有……
natural_ segue
That I'm in love with the woman who has taken care of me my whole life. She's married to my best friend. Also, I'm a dog.
我与照顾了我一生的女子相爱了，她与我最好的朋友结婚了，我是一只小狗
Non fat Granola
I'm a first generation Asian girl with a 4.0 G P A (unweighted, high school). My family doesn't know that I'm gay and I smoke weed.
我是第一代满绩的亚洲女孩（高中），我家人不知道我是同性恋，还吸大麻
Corey stang
That one night, I almost shot my self in the head. Had the gun to my temple, finger on the side of the trigger gaurd, just waiting.
Thankully I pulled out of my depression, got my life in order, am now happily married and want to grow old.
有一晚，我几乎自己一枪爆头了，用枪指着太阳穴，手指扣着扳机，只是在等待
幸好，我走出了绝望，生活重新恢复了秩序，现在开心地结婚，想要慢慢变老
Fierce Hawk
That the man I dated last year gave me H I V. Been over a year, and my parents don't know. I just don't want then to worry about me every time I get a small cold or something. My sister and close friends know.
我去年约会的男人把艾滋传染给我了，已经一年了，我家人不知道，我不想让他们为我担心，我姐姐和亲密的好友知道的。
En zo T
That the only people who I don't hate are my two parents.
我唯一不痛恨的人是我的父母
P a t
I think all your parents just got Reddit accounts.
我觉得你们的父母都有这里论坛的账号

Dr D free man
The biggest secret I've kept from my very catholic family for over a decade is that I'm an atheist.
我对自己天主教家人隐瞒的最大的秘密就是我是一个无神论者
S t Lucifer
I paid for my girlfriend's abortion when I was 19
我19岁时为我女友堕胎付了钱
Janet_ Co quette
Most of my family does not know that I am a stripper.
我大多数的家人都不知道我是一个脱衣舞女
Eru last iel
That I was sexually abused as a child. My mother is the only one who knows, but only because she allowed it to happen.
我小时候遭受了性虐待，只有我母亲知道，但是她让这种事情发生的

piccolo_ beast
I was sexually harassed on my school bus in 10th grade by someone I thought was a friend. To make things worse, he did it when he knew I had a boyfriend and I kept reminding him but he didn't care. Then my boyfriend told me I was a cheater and I'm still not sure whether it was my fault or not. I also cut myself when I get depressed.
我十岁的时候在校车上被我认为是朋友的人性侵了。更糟糕的是，他是在知道我有男朋友的情况下这么做的，我一直这样提醒他但他不在意。然后我男友说我是骗子，我现在还不知道这是不是我的错，我还在自己绝望的时候想做个了断
K I D mi mi
I'm dying.
我要死了
No need for an account
That I lost my virginity to my little sister when we were 13 and 15.
我的贞洁被我的小妹妹夺走了，那时我们分别13岁和15岁
Curiouser Y
I've changed my name and nationality.
我已经更改了姓名和国籍

Hussy interrupted
I was raped and beaten by 2 men while I was in college. I never told any of them because I felt my mother would have a meltdown.
我在大学遭到两个男子强奸和殴打，我没有告诉任何人，因为我知道我母亲会崩溃的
Adaran y x
I had an abortion two years ago. Boyfriend's dad keeps asking when we're going to give him grandkids. When I'm god damn ready.
我两年前堕胎了，男友的父亲不停地问我什么时候给他生个孙子，那时我真的准备好了
Stry ke
My parents don't know that I'm married. Only her parents and my grandparents know.
我父母不知道我已经结婚了，只有她父母和我外祖母知道
隐瞒家人 秘密


你成功隐瞒家人的最大的秘密是什么？
What is the biggest secret you have successfully kept from your family?

译文来源:
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1huxiq/what_is_the_biggest_secret_you_have_successfully/
原创翻译：龙腾网

My brother told me he was going to commit suicide before he did it. I didn't believe him and just thought he was kidding so I didn't tell anyone.
Edit: Thanks everyone, it's been 5 years and I'm just starting to deal with it. All you replies were thoughtful and won't go unnoticed. You are all great people.
我哥哥在自杀前曾经和我说过，我没有相信他，只是觉得他和我开玩笑呢就没告诉别人
注：感谢大家，已经五年了我才开始接受这个现实，你们的回复都很体贴，不会被我忽视的，你们都是好人

Purple_ death
I broke the lamp with a bouncey ball with my grandpa. We blamed the cat.
我和祖父用弹力球打碎了灯，我们责怪了猫
S U P E R
I have 5 brothers and sisters. we were all raised by the same father. I ve learned I m his only biological child due to adultery. my mom doesn t know I know. my siblings have no idea.
我有5个兄弟姐妹，我们都是同一个父亲抚养长大的，我知道因为通奸关系自己是唯一生理上的孩子，我母亲不知道我知道这个，我的兄弟姐妹也不知道
Chai Tea A Z
My family knows my fiancé is younger than me, but they don't know he is 20 years younger than me.
我家人知道未婚夫比我年轻，但他们不知道他比我年轻20岁

Garlic_ Ice_ Cream
The scars on my stomach are not from jiu-jitsu. They are from my ex's fingernails. They don't know about the ex either.
我胃部的疤痕不是来自于柔道，是我前女友留下的，他们也不知道我有前女友
Chezy Spam
Had sex with one of my mom's friends for a little while. That was nifty. It's been years, Mom doesn't know and I doubt she would care at this point.
有一段时间和我母亲的朋友发生性关系，那很棒，很多年了，母亲不知道，我也不知道她是否在意
Kno name no face
My family does not know that my older brother molested and raped me for six years. It started when I was seven and ended just after my thirteenth birthday. He regularly threatened to kill me and beat me up -- but he was 'smart' enough to never leave noticeable marks. I never told anyone out of fear and because I didn't think anything would be done about it. He's only three years older than me but the fucker knew better. I am 22 now and while I consider myself a strong young woman, he still gets under my skin. I try to never be alone with him but when there is a chance, he takes it.
我家人不知道我的哥哥骚扰和强奸我六年的时间，在始于我六岁时，止于我13岁生日时。他经常威胁说要杀我和打我—但他很聪明，从来不留下线索。我处于恐惧和知道无能为力而没有告诉任何人。他只比我大三岁。我现在22岁了，以为自己可以成为一个坚强的女人了，但是他还是可以钻到我的裙底下去，我努力不和他独处但只要有机会，他就会把握住。
Spell man_ sister
I lost my virginity in a rape when I was 15. Became suicidal and tried to kill myself, later developing bulimia. Five years later I still struggle with it every damn day.
我15岁遭到强奸失去了贞洁，想过自杀，然后换上了暴食症，5年过去了我还是每天在为此挣扎。
Mother psy cho
That I'm bisexual. My mother has told us all that if we ever came out, she'd still love us but we were to never talk about it or introduce her to our partner.. I love women, I've had sex with more women than men.. I envy my cousin who came out and was so accepted by her mom.
我是双性恋。我的母亲告诉我们说如果我们出柜了，她还是会爱我们的，但是我们从来没有讨论过这个或者把我的同伴介绍给她…我爱女人，我与女人发生的性关系比与男人还多，我羡慕我的表妹出柜了，还被她母亲接受了

Uni sex Bath tub
That I haven't gone to school since I was 15. I'm 22 now and they think I've just graduated college.
我15岁开始就没有去过学校，我现在22岁，他们认为我刚从大学毕业
Plasmid D N A
how were you able to pull this off?
你怎么隐瞒过去的？
Uni sex Bath tub
I'm one of 4 boys and the youngest. My parents worked out of state most of the time and left us to take care of ourselves. When I stopped going my brother pretended to be my dad on the phone and eventually they stopped trying to contact us.
我是四个男孩中的一个，是最年轻的。我父母大多数时间在外国工作，让我们自己照顾自己。当我辍学之后我哥哥在电话里假装是我爸爸，最终他们就不和我联系了。
A r a t
That I frequently want my existence to cease.
最终我想结束自己的存在
Jenny bella l
Sex before marriage.
婚前性行为
Slimy Yet Satisfying
...that you thought you successfully kept from your family
你原以为你成功地瞒过了自己的家人
Trippy mc gee
I had an abortion when I was 16.
我16岁的时候堕了胎
A jk lsdd
That I'm in a relationship with someone who they absolutely hate. They can't stand him. It's been over two years and we still have to fucking sneak around like we're sixteen.
我与一个他们痛恨的人发生了关系。他们不能忍受他，已经两年了我们还得遮遮掩掩，像是我们只有16岁一样
Ass hole Reporting Sir
Probably buried at this point...
My mom tried to abort me but the State wouldn't let her have another abortion in that year and It was too close to her last abortion.
She doesn't know I know...
说来话长了
我母亲想把我堕胎了，但是州法律不许她在那一年第二次堕胎，这距离她上次堕胎时间太短了
她不知道我知道的
Nozz A L a
I masturbated a lot as a teen.
Just kidding. They knew.
作为年轻人我经常手淫
只是开玩笑，他们知道的
Wacko Slacko
I know that I'm adopted...
I'm the big "family secret"...
我知道我是领养的……
我是家庭的大秘密
Diou so what
I've tried to kill myself... Twice...
Edit: Thanks to everyone that gave me positive feedback. Feels Good Man
我想杀了自己……两次了
注：感谢大家给了积极的反馈，现在感觉很好

Q U A C K E R
My family thinks I have a lot of friends. I really don't...
我家人觉得自己有很多朋友，其实我没有……
natural_ segue
That I'm in love with the woman who has taken care of me my whole life. She's married to my best friend. Also, I'm a dog.
我与照顾了我一生的女子相爱了，她与我最好的朋友结婚了，我是一只小狗
Non fat Granola
I'm a first generation Asian girl with a 4.0 G P A (unweighted, high school). My family doesn't know that I'm gay and I smoke weed.
我是第一代满绩的亚洲女孩（高中），我家人不知道我是同性恋，还吸大麻
Corey stang
That one night, I almost shot my self in the head. Had the gun to my temple, finger on the side of the trigger gaurd, just waiting.
Thankully I pulled out of my depression, got my life in order, am now happily married and want to grow old.
有一晚，我几乎自己一枪爆头了，用枪指着太阳穴，手指扣着扳机，只是在等待
幸好，我走出了绝望，生活重新恢复了秩序，现在开心地结婚，想要慢慢变老
Fierce Hawk
That the man I dated last year gave me H I V. Been over a year, and my parents don't know. I just don't want then to worry about me every time I get a small cold or something. My sister and close friends know.
我去年约会的男人把艾滋传染给我了，已经一年了，我家人不知道，我不想让他们为我担心，我姐姐和亲密的好友知道的。
En zo T
That the only people who I don't hate are my two parents.
我唯一不痛恨的人是我的父母
P a t
I think all your parents just got Reddit accounts.
我觉得你们的父母都有这里论坛的账号

Dr D free man
The biggest secret I've kept from my very catholic family for over a decade is that I'm an atheist.
我对自己天主教家人隐瞒的最大的秘密就是我是一个无神论者
S t Lucifer
I paid for my girlfriend's abortion when I was 19
我19岁时为我女友堕胎付了钱
Janet_ Co quette
Most of my family does not know that I am a stripper.
我大多数的家人都不知道我是一个脱衣舞女
Eru last iel
That I was sexually abused as a child. My mother is the only one who knows, but only because she allowed it to happen.
我小时候遭受了性虐待，只有我母亲知道，但是她让这种事情发生的

piccolo_ beast
I was sexually harassed on my school bus in 10th grade by someone I thought was a friend. To make things worse, he did it when he knew I had a boyfriend and I kept reminding him but he didn't care. Then my boyfriend told me I was a cheater and I'm still not sure whether it was my fault or not. I also cut myself when I get depressed.
我十岁的时候在校车上被我认为是朋友的人性侵了。更糟糕的是，他是在知道我有男朋友的情况下这么做的，我一直这样提醒他但他不在意。然后我男友说我是骗子，我现在还不知道这是不是我的错，我还在自己绝望的时候想做个了断
K I D mi mi
I'm dying.
我要死了
No need for an account
That I lost my virginity to my little sister when we were 13 and 15.
我的贞洁被我的小妹妹夺走了，那时我们分别13岁和15岁
Curiouser Y
I've changed my name and nationality.
我已经更改了姓名和国籍

Hussy interrupted
I was raped and beaten by 2 men while I was in college. I never told any of them because I felt my mother would have a meltdown.
我在大学遭到两个男子强奸和殴打，我没有告诉任何人，因为我知道我母亲会崩溃的
Adaran y x
I had an abortion two years ago. Boyfriend's dad keeps asking when we're going to give him grandkids. When I'm god damn ready.
我两年前堕胎了，男友的父亲不停地问我什么时候给他生个孙子，那时我真的准备好了
Stry ke
My parents don't know that I'm married. Only her parents and my grandparents know.
我父母不知道我已经结婚了，只有她父母和我外祖母知道
隐瞒家人 秘密