父亲拒绝放弃刚出生的患有唐氏综合症的儿子

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Dad Refuses to Give Up Newborn Son With Down Syndrome
父亲拒绝放弃刚出生的患有唐氏综合症的儿子

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When Samuel Forrest of Armenia heard a baby crying from outside his wife's hospital room, he knew his life would change forever.

当塞缪尔福利斯特在妻子的产房外听到婴儿的哭声时,他知道,自己的命运永远改变了。

Not only had he become a father, but he would soon receive some unexpected news about his newborn son.

刚刚成为父亲,他便听到了关于儿子的噩耗。
"This pediatrician walks out of the room with a little bundle -- that was Leo," Forrest said. "She had his face covered up and hospital authorities wouldn't let me see him or my wife. When the doctor came out, he said 'there’s a real problem with your son.' 译文来源:龙腾网 HTTP://WWW.LTAAA.COM

“一名儿科医生走出产房,怀里抱着一个小孩——那是里奥”,福利斯特说道,“她挡住了我儿子的脸,而且不让我看儿子和妻子。当医生出来时,他说,我儿子情况不太好。”

Forrest followed doctors and nurses into a room where he'd finally get to meet his baby.

福利斯特跟随医生和护士进入一个房间,在那里他终于见到了自己的儿子。

"When I walked into the room they all turned to me and said 'Leo has Down syndrome," he told ABC News. "I had a few moments of shock."

“当我进入房间时,他们都转向我,说,里奥患了唐氏综合症,”他告诉ABC新闻记者。“我惊呆了。”

After the news had sunk in, Forrest held Leo for the very first time.

新闻准备做好后,福利斯特进入第一时间。

"They took me in see him and I looked at this guy and I said, he's beautiful -- he's perfect and I'm absolutely keeping him."

“他们带我进去看我的儿子,我看着我的儿子,说,他是这么的漂亮——他是这么的完美,我必须把他养大。”

Soon Forrest walked into his wife's hospital room with Leo in his arms.

不久,福利斯特抱着小里奥进入了妻子的病房。

Her reaction was unlike one he ever expected.

她的反应让我意外。

"I got the ultimatum right then," he said. "She told me if I kept him then we would get a divorce."

“我很快拿到了最后通牒,”他说。“她告诉我,如果我想要这个孩子,就离婚。”

Attempts to reach the hospital for comment weren't immediately successful. The baby's mother, Ruzan Badalyan, told ABC News that she did have a child with Down syndrome and she has left her husband, who has the child, but she declined to elaborate.

我们试图到医院获得更多信息,但结果不理想。孩子的妈,苏珊亚美尼亚,告诉ABC记者,她确实生过一个患有唐氏综合症的孩子,而且她已经同他的丈夫离婚,并把孩子交给了他,但她拒绝透露详情。

Forrest, who's from Auckland, New Zealand, said he was completely unaware of the hospital practices in Armenia when it came to children.

福利斯特,一名新西兰奥克兰人,说,他完全不知道在美国生孩子能获得什么样的医院福利。

"What happens when a baby like this is born here, they will tell you that you don’t have to keep them," he said. "My wife had already decided, so all of this was done behind my back."

“这样的疾病儿童出生时会发生什么,他们会告诉你,你不能养他们,”他说,“我妻子已经决定了,所以,一切都在我不知情的情况下就被决定了。”

Despite his wife's warnings, Forrest said he never had a doubt in his mind that he would hold onto his son.

不顾妻子的警告,福利斯特说他一定会养育自己的儿子。

One week after his birth, Leo's mom filed for divorce.

儿子出生一周后,母亲签署了离婚协议书。

"It's not what I want," Forrest said. "I didn’t even have a chance to speak with her in privately about it."

“这不是我想要的,”福利斯特说,“我甚至没有任何机会同她私下谈谈此事。”

Forrest, who works as a freelance business contractor, has plans for he and Leo to move to his native country of New Zealand where he said they'll receive support from loved ones.

福利斯特,一名个体户,计划带着儿子迁回自己的母国新西兰,在那里,他们会得到来自家人的支持。

In the meantime, he's enlisted for some help on his GoFundMe page titled "Bring Leo Home."

与此同时,他在个人主页上发表帖子“让里奥回家”,以寻求支持。

"This really came out of the blue for me," he said. "I don’t have a lot, I have very little in fact. The goal is to raise enough for a year so I can get a part-time job so Leo doesn't have to be in daycare and I can help care for him. He's lost a lot in two weeks. It'd be different if he had his mommy."

“事情来的太突然了,”他说,“我没有足够的钱,事实上,我只有很少。我的目标是在一年内攒够钱,所以,我必须做兼职工作,这样,就不用送里奥去托儿所,我可以自己照顾他。在两周内,他失去的太多了,如果他有妈妈,结果会有所不同。”

Forrest has recently been working with disability awareness groups to share his story in the hopes that parents will become better educated on children with special needs.

福利斯特近来和残疾人救助团体一起工作,分享他的故事,希望学到更多残疾儿童救助知识。

"After what I've been through with Leo, I'm not going to sit back and watch babies be sent to orphanages," he said. "As a child with Down syndrome, that becomes somewhat of a label. If we can get around this label, we’ll see that they’re normal. They’re a little different from us, but they’re still normal.

“在与里奥一起熬过最初阶段后,我不会休息,更不会送他去孤儿院,”他说,“像很多患唐氏综合症的孩子一样,他在人群中会比较特殊。如果我们能规避这个特殊性,我们会看到他们变得像正常人一样生活。他们和我们可能有少许不同,但他们依然是正常人。”

"They all have niches and I want to work hard to find out where Leo's special. This little guy is great."

“世界上总归有他们的位置,我希望尽力开发里奥的能力。他是个优秀的小家伙。”原创翻译:龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.com
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Dad Refuses to Give Up Newborn Son With Down Syndrome
父亲拒绝放弃刚出生的患有唐氏综合症的儿子

20151423271718.jpg

When Samuel Forrest of Armenia heard a baby crying from outside his wife's hospital room, he knew his life would change forever.

当塞缪尔福利斯特在妻子的产房外听到婴儿的哭声时,他知道,自己的命运永远改变了。

Not only had he become a father, but he would soon receive some unexpected news about his newborn son.

刚刚成为父亲,他便听到了关于儿子的噩耗。
"This pediatrician walks out of the room with a little bundle -- that was Leo," Forrest said. "She had his face covered up and hospital authorities wouldn't let me see him or my wife. When the doctor came out, he said 'there’s a real problem with your son.' 译文来源:龙腾网 HTTP://WWW.LTAAA.COM

“一名儿科医生走出产房,怀里抱着一个小孩——那是里奥”,福利斯特说道,“她挡住了我儿子的脸,而且不让我看儿子和妻子。当医生出来时,他说,我儿子情况不太好。”

Forrest followed doctors and nurses into a room where he'd finally get to meet his baby.

福利斯特跟随医生和护士进入一个房间,在那里他终于见到了自己的儿子。

"When I walked into the room they all turned to me and said 'Leo has Down syndrome," he told ABC News. "I had a few moments of shock."

“当我进入房间时,他们都转向我,说,里奥患了唐氏综合症,”他告诉ABC新闻记者。“我惊呆了。”

After the news had sunk in, Forrest held Leo for the very first time.

新闻准备做好后,福利斯特进入第一时间。

"They took me in see him and I looked at this guy and I said, he's beautiful -- he's perfect and I'm absolutely keeping him."

“他们带我进去看我的儿子,我看着我的儿子,说,他是这么的漂亮——他是这么的完美,我必须把他养大。”

Soon Forrest walked into his wife's hospital room with Leo in his arms.

不久,福利斯特抱着小里奥进入了妻子的病房。

Her reaction was unlike one he ever expected.

她的反应让我意外。

"I got the ultimatum right then," he said. "She told me if I kept him then we would get a divorce."

“我很快拿到了最后通牒,”他说。“她告诉我,如果我想要这个孩子,就离婚。”

Attempts to reach the hospital for comment weren't immediately successful. The baby's mother, Ruzan Badalyan, told ABC News that she did have a child with Down syndrome and she has left her husband, who has the child, but she declined to elaborate.

我们试图到医院获得更多信息,但结果不理想。孩子的妈,苏珊亚美尼亚,告诉ABC记者,她确实生过一个患有唐氏综合症的孩子,而且她已经同他的丈夫离婚,并把孩子交给了他,但她拒绝透露详情。

Forrest, who's from Auckland, New Zealand, said he was completely unaware of the hospital practices in Armenia when it came to children.

福利斯特,一名新西兰奥克兰人,说,他完全不知道在美国生孩子能获得什么样的医院福利。

"What happens when a baby like this is born here, they will tell you that you don’t have to keep them," he said. "My wife had already decided, so all of this was done behind my back."

“这样的疾病儿童出生时会发生什么,他们会告诉你,你不能养他们,”他说,“我妻子已经决定了,所以,一切都在我不知情的情况下就被决定了。”

Despite his wife's warnings, Forrest said he never had a doubt in his mind that he would hold onto his son.

不顾妻子的警告,福利斯特说他一定会养育自己的儿子。

One week after his birth, Leo's mom filed for divorce.

儿子出生一周后,母亲签署了离婚协议书。

"It's not what I want," Forrest said. "I didn’t even have a chance to speak with her in privately about it."

“这不是我想要的,”福利斯特说,“我甚至没有任何机会同她私下谈谈此事。”

Forrest, who works as a freelance business contractor, has plans for he and Leo to move to his native country of New Zealand where he said they'll receive support from loved ones.

福利斯特,一名个体户,计划带着儿子迁回自己的母国新西兰,在那里,他们会得到来自家人的支持。

In the meantime, he's enlisted for some help on his GoFundMe page titled "Bring Leo Home."

与此同时,他在个人主页上发表帖子“让里奥回家”,以寻求支持。

"This really came out of the blue for me," he said. "I don’t have a lot, I have very little in fact. The goal is to raise enough for a year so I can get a part-time job so Leo doesn't have to be in daycare and I can help care for him. He's lost a lot in two weeks. It'd be different if he had his mommy."

“事情来的太突然了,”他说,“我没有足够的钱,事实上,我只有很少。我的目标是在一年内攒够钱,所以,我必须做兼职工作,这样,就不用送里奥去托儿所,我可以自己照顾他。在两周内,他失去的太多了,如果他有妈妈,结果会有所不同。”

Forrest has recently been working with disability awareness groups to share his story in the hopes that parents will become better educated on children with special needs.

福利斯特近来和残疾人救助团体一起工作,分享他的故事,希望学到更多残疾儿童救助知识。

"After what I've been through with Leo, I'm not going to sit back and watch babies be sent to orphanages," he said. "As a child with Down syndrome, that becomes somewhat of a label. If we can get around this label, we’ll see that they’re normal. They’re a little different from us, but they’re still normal.

“在与里奥一起熬过最初阶段后,我不会休息,更不会送他去孤儿院,”他说,“像很多患唐氏综合症的孩子一样,他在人群中会比较特殊。如果我们能规避这个特殊性,我们会看到他们变得像正常人一样生活。他们和我们可能有少许不同,但他们依然是正常人。”

"They all have niches and I want to work hard to find out where Leo's special. This little guy is great."

“世界上总归有他们的位置,我希望尽力开发里奥的能力。他是个优秀的小家伙。”
这妈妈够奇葩
这病很厉害,现在没法治好,一般活不长
不做产检唐筛,怨谁呢?
早点了断,孩子还能少受苦来自: Android客户端
qazxswqazxsw 发表于 2015-2-9 17:50
不做产检唐筛,怨谁呢?
普通唐筛鉴定几率也不高,而且经常有把健康胎儿误诊断为唐氏的可能。除非产前抽羊水或者脐带血鉴定。
华大基因,唐筛最专业。
qazxswqazxsw 发表于 2015-2-9 17:50
不做产检唐筛,怨谁呢?
有时候查不出来的,我儿子在腹中时 所哟有的检查都做了可出生时还是有脊柱裂,幸亏治疗及时同济一位这方面的专家亲自手术五岁时二次手术,术后恢复好检查教授说这堪称脊柱裂手术恢复全国最好的范例之一。 如今只是走路姿势有点问题其它的后遗症都没有。 我很钦佩这位父亲,也同样钦佩我自己。
好事啊!阿甘啊!
最好做一次 dna
父爱也很伟大
刚查了一下什么是唐氏综合症,很可怕的样子,这个父亲太自私了,没有考虑患儿自己的意愿,非要把他留在人间受罪。
  楼上的没孩子吧,你无法理解父亲的心情,不是什么事都能放弃的
风沙有点大阿,看到乡村农家乐邻居的那个孩子就是的,可怜天下父母心啊!
汉宫秋 发表于 2015-2-9 21:12
楼上的没孩子吧,你无法理解父亲的心情,不是什么事都能放弃的
你应该理解孩子的心情,生不如死,孩子又不是定死了只能这一个。
neuhl 发表于 2015-2-9 18:14
普通唐筛鉴定几率也不高,而且经常有把健康胎儿误诊断为唐氏的可能。除非产前抽羊水或者脐带血鉴定。
现在不需要抽羊水了吧?直接从孕妇血液里面可以收集DNA--
你应该理解孩子的心情,生不如死,孩子又不是定死了只能这一个。
兄弟,或许等你当了父亲,你就会改变你的想法了。
lslsu27 发表于 2015-2-9 22:06
兄弟,或许等你当了父亲,你就会改变你的想法了。
也许吧,但是以客观的角度看,当父亲的不应该只顾及自己的想法。
现在不需要抽羊水了吧?直接从孕妇血液里面可以收集DNA--
准确率还是达不到羊水穿刺测试的级别
有时候查不出来的,我儿子在腹中时 所哟有的检查都做了可出生时还是有脊柱裂,幸亏治疗及时同济一位这方 ...
相信你孩子一定可以恢复的更好!
楼上的没孩子吧,你无法理解父亲的心情,不是什么事都能放弃的
当爹不是不要智商的,现在医院都会做唐筛的。我有个同事就查出唐氏儿然后引产,后来又生了一个女儿不要太可爱。
这分明就是医院失职,怎么就坏事变好事,成了伟大父爱的故事了?
当爹不是不要智商的,现在医院都会做唐筛的。我有个同事就查出唐氏儿然后引产,后来又生了一个女儿不要太 ...
中唐筛查率不是很高,很可能遗漏

早唐效果好,但是有几个医院可以做早唐?

如果建卡医院不能做,非建卡医院根本就不给你做,如果没关系,智商再高也没用
唐氏综合症说白了就是先天智障,是染色体异常造成的,根本就治不好,一旦唐筛不过立马引产,不用考虑的,对自己对孩子都是好事!除非你是天主教徒喜欢受罪的
这个综合征的患儿基本上四岁以内身体无法自行直立,因为严重的骨骼肌肉发育不良,同时往往伴随有其他的脏器发育问题,这病是根子上的问题,从文章里头看这当爹的还想让自己的孩子读书,我真是服了,这样的孩子读书就是在浪费资源,为什么?智力永远在六七岁的样子。西方圣母情怀的人真多
这个综合征的患儿基本上四岁以内身体无法自行直立,因为严重的骨骼肌肉发育不良,同时往往伴随有其他的脏器 ...
  是的,所有的残疾人,同性恋,犹太人,都要送进毒气室以净化这个世界。
想起我自己的遭遇,孩子出生时的喜悦,和离开时的心碎,那真是碎的渣都不剩了,所以这位父亲我十分能理解
早点了断,孩子还能少受苦
那是故意杀人……和流产完全不是一个概念。
FriedrichIV 发表于 2015-2-10 00:08
中唐筛查率不是很高,很可能遗漏

早唐效果好,但是有几个医院可以做早唐?
你在说美国的医院?
reallancelot 发表于 2015-2-9 23:50
相信你孩子一定可以恢复的更好!
  谢谢,本来可以要二胎的我们一家人包括我的父母都决定就养这一个。既然生了就要把他养好,教育好。
可以不要了吧。
思想的幽灵 发表于 2015-2-10 18:31
谢谢,本来可以要二胎的我们一家人包括我的父母都决定就养这一个。既然生了就要把他养好,教育好。
    是的,如果孩子情况很好可以要第二个没关系,孩子特别需要照顾就不能要第二个,我家情况和你也差不多,坚决不要第二个,只要孩子能健康成长,自己多吃点苦受点累没关系。
汉宫秋 发表于 2015-2-10 20:57
是的,如果孩子情况很好可以要第二个没关系,孩子特别需要照顾就不能要第二个,我家情况和你也差不多 ...
是啊,没生过孩子的可能不理解,当我在产房外面听到孩子的第一声啼哭时我就决定了这是我一生的守候。
思想的幽灵 发表于 2015-2-9 19:28
有时候查不出来的,我儿子在腹中时 所哟有的检查都做了可出生时还是有脊柱裂,幸亏治疗及时同济一位这方 ...
着实不易,难得父母心啊
浆糊瓶 发表于 2015-2-10 21:40
着实不易,难得父母心啊
  谢谢,大概世界上没什么能胜过骨血之爱了,爱我们的家人吧。
思想的幽灵 发表于 2015-2-10 18:31
谢谢,本来可以要二胎的我们一家人包括我的父母都决定就养这一个。既然生了就要把他养好,教育好。
一样的,现在生娃儿容易,想要养好一个娃儿,那是真的亏精力的很。
不一样的爱国者 发表于 2015-2-10 22:06
一样的,现在生娃儿容易,想要养好一个娃儿,那是真的亏精力的很。
  是的,这两年孩子上高中家里一切以孩子为中心少赚不少钱幸亏孩子还算争气。
思想的幽灵 发表于 2015-2-10 22:12
是的,这两年孩子上高中家里一切以孩子为中心少赚不少钱幸亏孩子还算争气。
我的还没上初中,从生下来就开始操心的很。为人父母真不容易,以前觉的没啥,真当自已有了娃儿才知道不容易。
  每一个来到这个世界的孩子,也许他有一点点完美。这也是上苍给我们最珍贵的礼物我们还是接受并且珍爱善待吧。

不一样的爱国者 发表于 2015-2-10 22:14
我的还没上初中,从生下来就开始操心的很。为人父母真不容易,以前觉的没啥,真当自已有了娃儿才知道不容 ...


  是啊,为人父母方知父母恩啊。要教会孩子乐观,让他以乐观的态度来看待那一点点苦难。
不一样的爱国者 发表于 2015-2-10 22:14
我的还没上初中,从生下来就开始操心的很。为人父母真不容易,以前觉的没啥,真当自已有了娃儿才知道不容 ...


  是啊,为人父母方知父母恩啊。要教会孩子乐观,让他以乐观的态度来看待那一点点苦难。